Hi bado,
Welcome to Tadley!
I'm afriad there isnt really a lot to do in Tadley, most of the action is in Basingstoke Festival Place, where there are about 30 restaurants, bars and cafes, a 10 screen cinema and night club.
See
http://www.festivalplace.co.uk/However there is a nice Cafe on the main road (Cafe Retreat) and on the road to Basingstoke there is the Queen's College Arms Pub.
We have a library, with DVD rental and free internet access and we also have tennis courts opposite the skate park.
-John